What we focus on the most directly effects how we feel. Here is some advice to keep a more positive mental attitude in the midst of a very negative world: " ...you'll do best by filling your minds and meditating on things true, noble, reputable, authentic, compelling, gracious - the best, not the worst; the beautiful, not the ugly; things to praise, not to curse." Philippians 4:8 The Message.
Parenting Tip #1
"Parents, do not come down too hard on your children or you'll crush their spirits."
Colossians 3:21. The Message
Children and Parenting
Parents have been doing it since time began. Parents have been having children. Children have needed to be trained how to survive and thrive in the situation in which they live. Let's face it. It's what we do.
In fact, here's a good definition of what parenting our kids is all about: "Training our children how to survive and thrive in the culture in which they live." We train not by just what we say but also what we do. I have heard it said that "more lessons are caught than taught." How true. have you ever heard a parent say, "Don't do as I do but as I say!"? That only leads to confusion and eventual frustration in the child.
Lead out in your home and be mentally and spiritually healthy yourself. Train your children how to live successful and productive lives by doing that yourself. Provide a home where your children are able to learn how to laugh, cry, play, deal with frustration, celebrate each other and deal with reality.
What If It Isn't Working
Sometimes families find themselves in situations where it appears difficult to deal with the family issues. Other times, catastrophic events have occurred that surpass the families skills to cope. And other times, families just need a neutral setting to work out the difficulties.
We exist to help provide every family with the tools and the settings to accomplish the goals of parenting. we can help your family through the events that have caused problems for the efamily or have stripped you of the skills you need to get through the present difficulties
We also stand ready to equip the parents in order to more effectively parent their children whether they be preschoolers, elementary aged or teens. We want to be your assistants in bringing your children to maturity, including responsibility, communication and problem-solving. Please call (239) 220-9912 for a free evaluation appointment.
