What we focus on the most directly effects how we feel. Here is some advice to keep a more positive mental attitude in the midst of a very negative world: " ...you'll do best by filling your minds and meditating on things true, noble, reputable, authentic, compelling, gracious - the best, not the worst; the beautiful, not the ugly; things to praise, not to curse." Philippians 4:8 The Message
Parenting Tip #1
"Parents, do not come down too hard on your children or you'll crush their spirits."
Colossians 3:21. The Message
Like it or not, you are a product of your family!
They say you can choose your friends but you are stuck with your family! It is where our early ideas and assumptions about life are formed. It is where we learn to interact with people and to solve problems.
For many people, family is where there can be problems that seem insurmountable. The good news is that lives can change. Even if your family of origin doesn't want to change, you can "break the chains" of the past and learn new ways to live that are far more healthy and productive for yourself.
If you would like to work on family issues that you feel may be hindering you from growing effectively, feel free to call and discuss this with us.
Step-families can have their own challenges.
Whether a family is reformed after a death of a spouse or divorce, step-families can have their own set of challenges. Society hasn't made it any easier with all the step-mother stories in our fairly tales! What is a family to do?
We can help you as you seek to form the new family. If you have already formed a step-family, we can help smooth out some of the bumps you may have found after the fact. Sometimes, it is a matter of just communicating in a neutral setting. Other times it may be repair work needing to be done on present relationships. And it may be a need to deal with the grief of the loss of the past relationships. Either way, contact us to set up a free consultation by calling (239) 220-9912 or e-mail us at mike@swflacounsel.com.
